Dear Petra: so why do I immediately lose interest after intercourse?

DEAR PETRA: I’m wondering basically’m supposed about something very wrong. I’m not morally in opposition to sex on an initial day nevertheless more often than not creates losing curiosity about the person afterward. It does not matter if the intercourse ended up being good or poor.

I am not sure should this be a relevant issue but I additionally discover i’m really repulsed by people who frequently anything like me above i prefer them, or perhaps, highlight their unique thinking most certainly, such as for instance with presents or compassionate motions. I’ve found it surely off-putting and obtain a sinking feeling that there surely is no way this person are a goer.

What is completely wrong beside me as well as how would we remedy it?

PETRA CLAIMS: Alex, my analytical angel. You may well ask something completely wrong with you.

Alex, you may be formally prohibited from actually ever asking that question once again. There is nothing “wrong” to you. There is nothing “wrong” with anyone*. We all have yet another psychological makeup that brings the distinctive personalities and provides united states certain pros and cons. (more…)